Adam Lambert and Tommy Joe: Just Sit Back, Watch and Smile!

Thanks to Kcinkcity for posting to YouTube this absolutely delicious compilation of all the things we love so much about Adam Lambert’s best buddy relationship with bassist Tommy Joe Ratliff.

Were you lucky enough to be at any of the shows when some of these things happened? The clips of when he’s sitting down and talking on stage were from the second to last Glam Nation Show at The Music Box in Los Angeles so at least I was at one of them. For many of the rest of them, this was the first time I saw these jewels. And speaking of jewels, be sure to catch it at :32! Warning – there are many sexually explicit scenes in this video. Beware!!

Love ya!

~ Carol ~

About Carol

I started writing on this site back in May 2009, not knowing what I was in for or where it would take me. I had no idea of the joy and personal satisfaction I'd find here. I never dreamed that I'd get to meet Adam, but that dream came true! The bonus of becoming such great friends with Lila and the other fans is what keeps me going. Music gets me though every day. In addition to Adam, I love Muse, Linkin Park, 80s and finding newer bands and supporting them by attending everything that's within 350 miles. With Adam, the boundaries are farther! Thanks for joining us on this ride! :)


  1. Love Adam………Love it……………..

  2. carmen #395 says:

    Adam and Tommy…..WOOT!!!!!!

  3. enough about the sex, can we get back to the magic of the mans voice. I believe thats what he wants to be known for !!!

    • Agree

      • and I agree.

        • i AGREE with you….it’s sick to watch, and I mean SICK in a bad way…. but I like him or his looks and music and this is NOT a family concert i don’t care what he says….

          • vocalsrule says:

            It was a family concert when it needed to be. He is smart too!

            He and Tommy are actors. Are you telling me you don’t see more offensive stuff on network TV and in the movies? Puleez. How many young girls are raped each night on TV?

          • Oh please. Grow up and get a grip.

          • Cycobitz says:

            See, Adam is about freedom of expression and encourages others to be the same. He’s teaching acceptance and we’re learning it. And I agree with Amy. I woul not take my 11 year old to his concert because I’m a very thoughtful parent. If I did, I wouldn’t be upet with Adam but with my bad decision to do that.

    • LindaBelle says:

      I’m with you bee bee…enough about the sex with Tommy, with the guitar, with the microphone and anything else that can be used to simulate sex acts!! Adam you have so much talent …do you think your talent is not enough to maintain an enormous, international, creative and fulfilling career. If so you are wrong, wrong, wrong! If anyone wants to watch sex they can rent a porn video, straight, gay or bisexual video and go for it. However they will not get to hear Adam’s magnificent voice or see Adam,s beautiful face. For those of us who would rather watch Adam sing and perform as only he can do, PLEASE stop the trash and get back to the original amazing performer that we hoped to watch for the rest of our lives.

  4. NinaLatinaGlam says:

    Adam looks awesome as a vampire…. I don’t think that Tommy is hetero…I seriously don’t!

    • totally agree with you. Never thought he was.

    • Ummmm….tommy is bi. He likes men AND women…

    • Oh he is, i meet him whenever they came to the show in St. Louis and even though he acts like that one stage, he is totally differrent off stage!!!! He was still the sweetest and one of the nicest people i have every met!! πŸ™‚ 100% hetero!!!!

  5. I went to 3 Australian concerts, and had the best time ever, would like to do it all again.
    luv it luv it luv it luv it luv it etc. I met both of them and they are the most sweetest people!!!!!

  6. Hilarious! I have seen this before, but thanks for posting it again. Even if I like watching this, I kind of agree with bee bee. There are so many sexy and Adommy videos on Youtube that sometimes I got tired of them. Neither I want his sexyness to become the most important thing about him, even if it is part of his performances. Just listening Adam sing is magical! However, this video has some witty humor in it πŸ˜€

  7. Let Adam be Adam. Part of being a fan, is the unconditional acceptance of who the man really is, and what he stands for. Because all our praises and love for him will be worthless if we cannot accept that vulnerable being inside him who begs to be understood and accepted. This could be blatant display, outrageous and provocative to some. But Adam is just bold and daring to have us come out of our comfort zones.

    Whatever happens in the future, we won’t forget that “for once in our lives” there was an Adam Lambert who stirred and mesmerized us, and unwittingly took up civil rights causes while performing on stage.

    So far, he alone now sits in his kind of throne, he carved for himself. Not one from among the crop of AI season 10 wannabes come close to his total likeness. They just represent parts of him. Adam gets to be the benchmark in versatility in singing, connection, sexiness, edginess, power….. ohhhh…. and many more. No one had ever driven us to orgasmic delights…….. No one………… Maybe, Elvis to some, but I was too young to know then.

  8. Again, my daughter asked me what I was thinking about all this…

    ;0)) I’ll tell you as I did to her:

    Should there’re the ads like “The show is highly recommended for hetersexual families to educate parents and inspire them to teach their kids how to succeed in establishing warm and effecient relationship with adults and peers” – if that would be a slogan of Adam’s shows, even then one could advocate his sexy antics by a simple arguement: if you’re unable to make difference between show and real life, you should avoid visiting any performances, including classic opera.

    Since even in Otello, that hot guy eliminates his guuurl in a rather cruel and unpedagogical way – by strangulating her, poor baby…just because she loved another guy…damn. And audience cheers that highly aesthetically acceptable way he did that …

    The same stupid stuff happened, happens and will (alas) happen always, each time when somebody shakes the basics of others. But, thanks God or Universe, or whatever, life always puts things to where they should be.

    Those who bood towards Beatles and Rolling Stones, then towards Queen, Aerosmith and Michael Jackson – where they are today???

    Adam’s shows are intended for nothing but one quite educational purpose – teaching people to be humorous and tolerant. Nothing more.

    Of course, apart from the highest aesthetic value they provide, both vocal and visual…and yes, spiritual.

    …My daughter is a super-kid – she catches things while they are just in the air..and she agreed with me completely :0)

    • @Viktory, you wrote, “Those who bood towards Beatles and Rolling Stones, then towards Queen, Aerosmith and Michael Jackson – where they are today???”

      Well, Michael Jackson is resting at Forest Lawn Cemetary. You do know he’s dead.

      • Hey – those who bood them, now listen to them and agree that all those are already classics of pop-rock. And their kids don’t have any doubts that those guys were and are most talented, invigorating, bold and progressive in the 20 – early 21 centuries.

        Yes, Adam is quite risque – if this is what you are afraid of and thus can’t take him as he is, – do not. If his antics offend you – do not watch him. Thanks God, we do have such right – to possess and defend our own opinion :o)

        • @Viktory, my bad. I misunderstood you. I thought you were trying to say Queen, Aerosmith, MJ, etc. were has beens.

  9. I don’t think this video shows Adam at his highest best self. Sorry!

  10. Lila - glamb #3 says:

    That was freak’n funny! I have to admit that I laughed HARD at 3:40. I mean… it looks like he was at the AIRPORT with his pants down. WTF????

  11. paulamaya says:

    Im so sorry for u Adam but its just ridiculus, and i think with your talent, you dont need to make u a sex birch ridiculus, sorry, im not sure if i’ll love u …..

    • This video is not from a show but a compilation of a lot of his shows “hottest” moments. If you were actually at his shows, you wouldn’t even notice a good portion of this. I went to two of them and learned a whole lot more from watching these videos than I did at the show. This video is for fun for his followers. Adam always puts his vocals first.

    • lighten up. It’s not that deep. Let him express himself they way he wants to. If you don’t like it or affended by it maybe your not such a fan after all. No matter what he does I love it and enjoy it. He can do no wrong. THAT IS WHAT A REAL FAN IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  12. paulamaya says:

    how to scrap a big voice talent ……..

  13. Tina Glamb#645 says:

    I love Adam and I loved the video…HOT!!! Can’t wait for the next new cd and the next tour!!!!


  14. Glamity58 says:

    I chose not to watch this. So many people are turned off by him because they think he is too “power gay.” I’m sure I won’t like this. I saw his concert long before he did these things and he was fabulous. It’s all about the voice for me. I don’t mind a little sexuality, but based on some of the comments, he went too far. I hope he changes his “tune” for his next concert go around. I think he’ll draw more fans. I still think he’s great and can’t wait for the second record.

  15. Whoa…that’s HOT, but that is not family friendly. That whole microphone thing…whoa! The concert I attended was family friendly, maybe too family friendly. Adam and Tommy didn’t even kiss.

    I like the flirting and the kissing, but masterbating the guitar?

    I do agree that he doesn’t need to do all that. He’s awesome just as he is.

  16. Musicalgal says:

    OMG Adam Adam Adam – well guess you are going all the way to the bank with this. You are talented musically. Hope you guys are having fun. Some one is very talented computer savvy putting these videos together. Very interest whoever put these videos together. I am looking forward to your new video though and new CD. This is definitely for adults only. Good Luck.

  17. Hi Carol, thank you for bringing us many interesting videos and posts. I have seen these in different videos but not concentrated like this, in one. Actually on their own they are in-tune and in-line with the rest of the performances of each show. Each of these sexy Adam acts or moves lasts a minute or so only, on his fabulous one-hour shows and should not be taken out of context and haphadzardly thrown together in one video. They are there as a kind of teaser or that extra bit of excitement or even a climax to some. Adam, being a dynamic, unique, veteran stage-actor knows how to craft a synthelating performance so there is never a dull moment ; he captures the audience’s attention from start to finish. I love all Adam videos but these are taken out of context. They do not do Adam justice as a creative theatre maestro. Anyway, I like his naughty puppy look !


    Enjoy and be humorous. Comments are welcomed at


  19. BarbaraSJ says:

    I’m choosing not to watch it either. No need to watch vulgarity; it’s distasteful and unnecessary. Would rather focus on his amazing voice. It IS supposed to be all about the music, isn’t it? At least that’s what Adam once said. Seems to me like its becoming more about promoting his own personal cause and lifestyle.

    • I am sorry I watched it. Complete turn off for me. Could be such a mega talent with his amazing vocals, but his own personal agenda of shoving this down our throats is becoming quite distasteful. Am afraid Adam will be doomed back to underground LA. But he will be happy and we will be sad that he had the chance and threw it all away. Sorry – just my opinion.

      • BarbaraSJ says:

        I love Adam, but I have to totally agree with you. He could go so, so, so much further in his music career if he would just focus on his singing (what an amazing voice!!!!). Love to watch him work the stage: dancing, and some of his antics), but not the nasty. Love you, Adam. Am praying for you — to the True God who created the universe (who loves you so much!!!!).

        • Cycobitz says:

          Barbara,thanks for praying and not judging. Your words are more about love than hating what his showmanship does. Pray more, hate less.
          Really, thank you.

  20. Happiness

  21. This is so sexually charged, but confusing emotionally. Is this a violation of our senses? Maybe Adam needs some spanking. OOhhh…. we can sort out stuff, and throw some out of the window, or throw in a waste can mentally. But the upside could be, a sexual stimulation, that I could always translate or express to my husband. Like, why shouldn’t I hold my husband like a guitar indeed? Or hold him in my mouth or whatever that Adam was doing. I haven’t fully watched the video when I made my first comment. I didn’t know that the video was that emotionally charged. It has the effect of a foreplay, it makes one want to grab a partner.

  22. This is awesome – and as others have said above, it’s for the real Adam fans who love every part of him, including his amazing voice.

  23. I just love Adam, but this is a little too much even for me to watch. I know that it was mostly taken out of context, but in the case of MORE IS MORE this is NOT better! Sometimes a LITTLE, goes a long way.

    Adam wants to be known for his singing and song writing abilities. He has mention that he does not want to be introduced as the GAY performer, so how is this helping him?

    I agree with GLAMITY 58, this does turn many people off, ultimately not helping his career. Adam is much more than this video. My grandchild who is 16, is really into Adam and says he’s really has done some great things in helping the gay community. I feel that this video is counter intuitive.

    I attended one of his first concerts and it was great, nothing like the actions in this video, however there was the Tommy kiss and everyone roared. I don’t think Adam realizes just how sexy he is, just being himself. He is sexy in his baseball hat with no makeup!

    Adam has so much talent, his voice, looks, charisma, personality; he is a true performer. As an Adam fan from day one, I want him to soar. I don’t want people to be turned off by these unnecessary actions.

    Adam is much more than this! Stay grounded Adam so everyone in the universe can enjoy you!

    Love, love my Adam………….

  24. Patrice80 says:

    HILARIOUS video… Does anyone still believe Tommy Joe is hetrosexual.. really? He needs to come out and stop the charades.. We are not stupid. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it’s a duck…. and I see a duck here. haha

  25. Can’t he just sing already instead of giving people a porn show everytime he gets on that stage WTF!

  26. Glambert5279 says:

    I agree with Adam Fan. All this stuff happen. Individually one hardly notices during a concert but put all together like this it make it feel like Adam behaves wildly all the time. Adam did 110 concerts, 10-12 songs per show. approx 80 min.per show , that’ s almost 8800 mins of concerts. This clip is not even 4 mins. that equals approx. 0.00045% of the time this behavior was displayed. That’s pretty small amount! Remember Adam put on the concert for the audience he was in front of, NOT for all the people watching the you tubes videos. Adam was kind enough to allow recording his concerts and allowing them to be put on You Tube, so lets enjoy the Glittery Alien is ALL of his glory for what he is, not try to mold him. That’s what he trying to let us learn, it’s OK to be yourself………………………….

  27. Carol Glam #7 PLEASE HELP!!!!!

    I watch American Idol and really like James Durbin, a great talent and what I see to be a nice human being.

    Just a while ago I went to Youtube and put James name in to see what he was up to. To my disbelief I found that he was being mocked because of his Tourette’s disability. There are people who responded to the video saying that is it was in very bad taste, and are also upset. It is horrible to think that a human being could stoop so low. I’m so upset, what is the matter with our society, to find pleasure in someone’s disability.

    I don’t use twitter and don’t know how, but will you please send a message to Adam to send out a tweet to educate these people. If anyone can get help for this young man James, it’s Adam.

    I always visit this site and that’s why I’m coming here to ask for help. Please, please someone notify Carol to help or tell me how. I will visit again for a response!

    Thanks to all,

  28. Hi Glamberts, I tend to agree with both of “dainty’s” comments. Let Adam be who he needs to be and applaude (sp) his vocal and theatrical performances. He’s a wonderful person, helping everyone he can and we think all the sexiness and some say “bad” scenes are just the campiness of the troup. If you don’t want your kids, parents or grandparents watching it, just keep them away from it. But don’t go dragging a very talented and professional performer down just for having a little “fun” when he has a chance!!!!!!! Luv u 4-ever, no matter what, Rita & Donna πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ ” ROCK ON MAN”

  29. I’ll be very happy when Adam takes off some of the “rhinestones” and puts on more “leather” in his next album! Got a little too glittery for me.

  30. Remember what Paula once told Adam : “You are true to who you are as an artist and you set the bar so high for yourself each week and we are looking forward to what you are going to do next.”
    We are critquing Adam’s videos shown above from our own viewpoint. To him, I feel it is his intense and passionate expression of his art form. Ingrained, Adam, a 10-year veteran stage actor has this compulsion to potray his acts with great passion and well, this is a sexual song he is potraying. He does have genuine feelings for Tommy though and these two elements – first-class stage acting and love, together, become so potent and real for him and the audience. I think this is Adam’s dream come true on stage. And that’s why Adam is so intriguing; he makes people feel deeply whether they are for or against.

    • oh! thank God at last someone understands Adam’s on-stage antiques… . I think the problem is that people can’t comprehend his artistic actions and feelings and soul. they are still acting like the one’s who didn’t approve his ability in singing on American Idol, and didn’t vote for him cause he was gay and let him not win, or the one’s who got angry by the kiss on AMA and caused many troubles for him, just because he tried to show them his own passion in the music, in his one way and style. why don’t you stop judging and enjoy every single moment of his amazing shows? and to be completely honest, I think you don’t understand him, and his music, if you don’t see why he kisses and does stuff with Tommy on-stage. It’s all Arts , music and performance. he is showing the combination of love and lust in Fever, so he kisses Tommy there… why don’t you see that?

  31. It does not help Adam’s image in getting new fans to have these videos representing him on u-tube.
    I adore him, but would not like him at all if all I knew was what that video shows. I don’t think the “fans ” who post these videos are aware of how the average viewer,without knowledge of the entire Adam, will possibily find him repulsive and depraved acting. Not all the fans who love his music love overt sexual content and this would certainly keep many from his next tour if they have never been to one. Why do fans want to chance harming his career?

  32. OK! Have to ask a question here~~~ Is this an Adam Lambert Fan Site?????? Yes I agree some of these videos are getting a little too much, but when the pictures are taken out of context, like this, they make it seem worse than it is! I didn’t even bother to read all the comments here, but read quite a few and I can tell you~~~~I thought I was reading comments on UTube!!! Hater comments! Adam is not doing anything he does on stage to promote “his life style” whatever the hell that means! He’s trying to please his fans and they scream for him to be sexual and he is a very sexual man! He would be the same way if he were hextro!! A TRUE fan knows the kind of person Adam is inside and what he stands for and does not sit in judgement of him or anyone else!! If this is an Adam fansite, think I won’t be coming back!!! Thank you!!!

    • Patrice80 says:

      Beverly…. I love this fan site because we are able to express our true opinions without being put down and criticized. Other sites you will be attacked if you mention anything the least bit critical. We all have our likes and dislikes and should have a site where we can tell it like we see it, without being attacked for our opinion. I think we have a lot of respect for each other here, as compared to other sites. I love the honesty from the fans. They are not hater comments but true feelings expressed and that is OK. We can have a negitive comment without hating anyone.
      I consider myself a true Adam fan and have been following him from day one on Idol S8. Saying that, I don’t see Adam as perfect (as none of us are). He has made many poor choices since this journey has begun, but he is learning along the way. Nobody here is sitting in judgement of Adam. To have and express an opinion is not judging. I hope you will come back as we are Adams loyal fangirls no matter what, but we are also respectful of each others opinions. Thank you.

  33. KarenPendragon says:

    You guys, I think you’re missing the point. This vid isn’t about the ‘Adam & Tommy’ sexy thing, it’s a tongue in cheek tribute to the fun they had on the tour and Adam’s ‘contradictory’ moments. It’s mostly about laughing and putting on a show. Yes it’s sexy too, but thats what the concerts were! I love it. I think Adam & Tommy would too. xxx

    • KO's smiling says:

      Thank you, Karen! This video is different from all the “adam and tommy” videos on youtube because it teases them about their behavior! I found it to be funny and very entertaining.

  34. Adam’s tour started out family friendly and evolved to what the audience responded to. All along were his great vocals. If you aren’t looking at other singers concert videos take a look. Adam isn’t doing anything outrageous. GaGa recently asked her audience to see their d!cks because she heard that Chicago had big d!cks…Pink uses MF all the time…Rhianna gets very sexual. Adam is fine. A concert is not a place for young children. The danger of large crowds and deafening music is not good for them. Teenagers are very savvy and I think can handle Adam or any other star’s antics on stage. Loved his concert. Love his new DVD/cd. Listen to the pure vocals. He is at the top of his game.

  35. OMG!!!!! This was so sexy! Adam and Tommy are both very talented artists. For those who didn’t know, Tommy is Bi. But I think him and adam make the perfect couple! And for those idiots who wanna diss adam for being gay, can stop being so pissed because you’d probably NEVER have a chance with him or someone that looks that good. Besides, in my opinion, it’s better he’s gay….I mean I’d rather see him with a hot guy, than a hot girl!!!!

  36. HURRAY FOR YOU KAREN, YOU ARE HITTING IT RIGHT ON!!!!!!!!!! Luv Adam & Tommy 4-ever, Donna & Rita πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  37. This was hot & funny!

    My question to all who don’t like it – why watch? It’s not like you don’t know what it’s going to be …

  38. I am a fan and I support Adam in whatever he does. I would perfer a little less of this. But, it doesn’t matter. I’ll still pay whatever I have to at his concerts to sit up front.

    I have still not received my signed photo for $100 donation to charity water. Have any of you? Also
    have not yet received my Glam Nation DVD preordered. Should I be worried or am I not alone. I can’t wait to see it and now sort of wish I had waited and bought at Target.

  39. Wow! Some responses. I’m also a big fan of Kcinkcity! The videos of Adam and Tommy are hilarious! Great job of editing!!

    Jerri, you don’t have to worry. I have the DVD and I didn’t see anything offensive in it.


    • p.s. I forgot to say that my computer has been without sound for two weeks, so I just watched it, but I bet the music fit perfectly. My favorite, so far, is Kcinkcity’s video of Adam “Vanity” with Christina Aguellera singing Vanity. It pokes fun at Adam, but in a good way. Watch it!

  40. Granny Gari says:

    I am offeded with the publicity they portray with Adam. This is not the Adam Lambert we want to see portrayed. I know Adam has a kind soul and is a great intertainer in his own unique way. I don’t believe he wants to be portrayed in this manner. Not that he can control anything the media throws out there. I wish the media would focus on Adam’s talent and his intertaining abilities and get off the gay gig. So what if he is gay, he is also a very gifted, handsome, precious young man and is deserving of the respect that great entertainers are deserving of.
    I remember when he met Modanna the advise she game him.
    This to will pass and he will go on to higher places because his fans love him and are devoted to him.

  41. KO's smiling says:

    Yep, this is still funny.

  42. Disappointed die-hard fan says:

    I agree with Betty, Barbara, Nancy and all the others that are just trying to look out for Adam by telling it as it is. Sad to say but I also believe Adam may not make it as far as he could. With his natural God-given amazing talent, good-looks, and intelligence, he could make it BIG, but instead he chooses to …I don’t know but these words come to mind…demean, cheapen, and lower himself, by promoting his gayness with too much blatant sexuality that it becomes distasteful. It is MOST DEFINITELY a turn-off. I also am praying for him, maybe one day who knows…

  43. KO's smiling says:

    I keep coming back to watch this and finding myself catching new little jokes. What a great sense of humor, kcinkcity!

  44. He even said when he left Idol, he knew he was not for everyone. He wants to be free to do as he
    pleases. If you dont like it……dont watch. The dvd is available without video. Listen to that, or don’t.
    Most people do not care what he does, or love it all. If its not for you….go away.. Leave them alone.

  45. Teddy Harlin says:


  46. Hilarious! So glad I decided to watch! I LOVED it!!!