Adam Lambert’s TwiRant – A Lesson on Fan Boundaries

Adam Lambert took to Twitter to get his message out regarding a recent invasion of his personal space and boundaries. It seems some “fans” gained suspicious entry into the Finale Party for RuPaul’s Drag Race, which Adam was attending in support of his friend and Glam Nation Tour make-up artist Sutan Amrull, Raja on the show. These interlopers chose to film Adam on his private time and broadcast it on YouTube. From the tweets, it also sounds like they got up close and personal. Adam used his personal skills to make these messages strong, but always with his touch of Lambert humor and love. And just in case you didn’t hear, Raja won!

Thank you to Katie Sheridan at for the following article.

Love ya!

~ Carol ~

Adam Lambert is known the world over as one sexy rock star! His onstage persona just oozes sensuality and his fans eat it up with a spoon. Adam is a self proclaimed sexual animal. But he doesn’t want to live in a cage.
For some fans, like me, there’s nothing sexier than self respect. And Adam Lambert exemplifies the meaning of the term. Today he called out a couple of fans for violating his off-stage personal boundaries while he was “out and about” attending a private party with friends. It seems some fans were following him and entering his personal space in ways he didn’t appreciate. Adam posted a Twitter twirade and let them have it in no uncertain terms. But, as is Adam’s habit, he did it with typical Lambert love, a bold love with grace rarely displayed by rock stars.

Fans: little strange when you walk up to say hi and you have a video cam on and ur trying to hide it. Who are u- paps? #imapersonnotathing

Or just taking a flash shot when I’m not lookin. Hah. C’mon it’s so tacky tourist. Have common courtesy and just ask. #idontbite


But thank you to all the sweet, polite folks who are cool about it. I love meeting you guys out and about and it’s a plus when you “get it”

Oh and also- please don’t touch my face. #boundaries

My new mission is to keep it as real as possible at all times. No more pageant-style p.c. smile and wave, smoke blowin, fake BS. #Realness

Haha but it’s sorta a damned if you, damned if you don’t thing– now some folks will think I’m an arrogant diva. Lol

When in reality- I’m human and just trying to do my best. Day by day. Just like you. 🙂 love you Glamily.

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About Carol

I started writing on this site back in May 2009, not knowing what I was in for or where it would take me. I had no idea of the joy and personal satisfaction I'd find here. I never dreamed that I'd get to meet Adam, but that dream came true! The bonus of becoming such great friends with Lila and the other fans is what keeps me going. Music gets me though every day. In addition to Adam, I love Muse, Linkin Park, 80s and finding newer bands and supporting them by attending everything that's within 350 miles. With Adam, the boundaries are farther! Thanks for joining us on this ride! :)


  1. I want to say first and foremost, to Adam, i want to thank you personally for putting this out. These fans had no right to not only follow you to a private function, but to invade your space like that was not called for. You are handling this like a true gentleman and letting us glams know where you stand with regards to your boundries. Thank you! This should be a lesson to fans of any celebrity! PRIVACY MEANS JUST THAT!

  2. yeah for adam for standing his ground. he is far more generous & kind to his fans than many other celebrities do. even though we love adam to death, we do not own him, therefore we must give him the respect he so rightly deserves. go adam!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. Adam will probably have to go over this, again. Some fans,just do’t get it. Adam has worked hard to achieve what he has, and no one, fan or otherwise has the right to follow him anywhere. How creepy is that?? Touch his face? The only contact they should feel priveleged to receive , is if Adam allows them to approach him with a handshake. The guy has a life.
    As I have said in the past., he does not owe us anything , but good music, etc. In other words, what we pay for. We should expect the best, and he gives us the best.

    . Yeah, he’s finiding out the price of fame. You get creeps, no matter how famous you are.
    Adam, always the gentleman, delivered his message in true Adam fashion – straight to the point..
    He’s opinionated, and I like that. He’s honest to a fault, and I can’t fault him for that.

    And, in cae those fans did get the message, they will discover that underneath all that niceness, and he truly is, is someone who is very disciplined and means what he says. Arrogant Diva?
    That is funny, as I don’t see that in any of his behavior. I have always seen him to be courteous.
    Return the same.



  4. Lila - Glamb #3 says:

    Personal space, people. Personal space!

  5. I think Adam had handled all of the attention he has gotten since Idol very well and he is very giving to his fans more than other artists, and he is very involved with us, he calls us glamily, what more can we ask for:)

  6. Tina Glamb#645 says:

    Glamity…awww!!! GIVE HIM SOME SPACE…DAMN!!! Him and Sutan would look so good together…Just sayin’!! 🙂

    Mistress Lambert!!

  7. kat23mogan says:

    some fans are way to annoying…but as usual…Adam handles it calmly and with class…

  8. Yes, Adam, you are human, thank you for sharing your gift with us. 🙂

  9. It’s really a strange issue and contradiction: those, who adore their idol, at the same time do a lot of stupid things to make him drift apart from them, his glamorizing audience…- so many stars finally had to construct the high wall between themselves and fans.

    It’s called “to strangle in embraces”…

    Though, this is the nature of any mob, I’m afraid.

    But I’m sure, Adam is a wise person – which he shows each time when it comes to judgment. And he’s quite able to find the best way to resolve such situation. And yeah – thanks to his great sense of humor and intellect.

    That’s why we love him to “fever” ;o)

  10. Yes as fans, we should know how to handle our admiration and adoration. And contrary to the song by Kara Dioguardi, ” No Boundaries”, there are BOUNDARIES indeed ! Ha-ha-ha

    I just miss my Glamily. How are you Irena? How’s your dancing ? Princessshakeitup, what have you been shaking lately ? Jill and Olga and the rest, HI !

    As to our Adam, thank God for his being grounded. Still as soothing as his songs and therapeutic— making his fans balanced, sane and also grounded.

  11. HOORAY ADAM!!!!! You deserve your privacy as much as everyone else does!!!!!!!! It’s just so hard when you are so dadgum beautiful in every sense of the word!!!!! Hope these sneaky camera jocks & jockesses will let you have your time, so that you can finally get back to US WHO LUV YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING!!!!!!!!! LUV 4-EVER & A DAY, RITA & DONNA 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

  12. well now i am very scared if my wish has finally came true (i wish every day) and i get to meet him and hes mean to me :'( the thought makes me want to cry :”'(

    but i wouldnt intrude on his personal space,,, i just want to hug him for a long time……. xD